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Love Stinks. Sometimes we get dumped.
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Girl of My Dreams Dumped Me!
by Magnum
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I met her on the second day of college in my writing class. She walked in and I thought "Who is that?" My female friend from high school turned to me and said, "Shut up! You'll never get her!" I vowed to my friend that if I became this mysterious girls friend, I would make sure that we remained friends for a long time.
School ended and we all graduated. My Dream Girl was already seeing a guy. Nice. Bit of an arrogant prick but whatever. I went to their wedding and was happy for her, I really was.
We all stayed in touch over the years. As years passed, I could tell that she was not happy. Then one day, while sitting at a cafe in February, she turned to me and said "We're getting a divorce!" Those words were like a jab in my heart! Of course I have longed for her for years but did not want her to unhappy!
The night came when she left her husband. I was there for her. I helped her leave. It was tough. She cried and cried at a coffee shop waiting for her sisters in laws to leave so she could have a place to stay. I checked up on her often to make sure that she was okay, totally as friends.
Weeks based and we begun to hang out more. We had a lot of fun. I always kept my feelings in check.
Then one day, I will never forget it, September 18th, she confessed to be @ 2 a.m. in the driveway of her house how she has started to have feelings for me and they were uncontrollable. Part of me was thinking that it was a dream and then part of me just wanted to scream out loud! I confessed to her how I had a crush on her for the past ten years! She was so shocked but so impressed and humbled that I never made our friendship awkward or weird on her. We started to talk more about us and things progressed. I was on Cloud 9 for so long. I loved everything about her. I loved her in her pajamas and when she just woke up. We always had fun. We communicated, we had fun, we did everything together just because we loved just being around one another. She once even confessed to me that dating me for the year and a half was better than her marriage of 10 years.
Then it happened, as they say, all good things must come to an end. She started have issues with our different cultural backgrounds. She started to ask me certain questions about how I wanted to raise our children. My response was that I just wanted them to be respectful to others, be good and have some sort of faith, but to her, that was not good enough. Then she started to get insecure about everything else as well.
Anyhow, it has been done since April. My heart misses her immensely. We have spoken here and there and just when I think that she is ready to come back to me, I am welcomed with more obstacles and excuses. She states that she needs time but I have heard that before.It sucks as this was my dream girl. This was the one girl that I felt that I loved with every ounce of my soul and being. I do hope that she comes back but a the same time, I am not holding my breath and am just trying to move on and get on with my life. But do you know how dificult it is to be with someone that you had longed for so many years and *POOF* gone...
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